How to Be a Lovable Person?

When you see your friend that has many friends and is loved by people around her, you start to wonder how she can become the centre of attention. She looks so interesting and every people feel comfort to stay near her. So, how to be a lovable person?

In fact, it is not too difficult to be a lovable person. Everything is started from you. Do you like to make friend with someone who is polite, kind, and friendly? I am sure you will answer 'yes' for that question. So, treat others like you want to be treated by others.

Basically, as human being, every body has positive and negative sides, including you. So just try to develop your positive sides and make up your negative sides, especially when you socialize with others. If you want to be treated well by your friends, just treat them well.

To be interesting person, you do not need to be other persons or act like others. Just be yourself. Life is too short for you when you try to be others. You also have many positive sides, so just show them.

First, try to be a good listener for your friends. Sometimes it is hard to listen to something that we do not like, so you will be very appreciated when you give your time for listening to what people talk to you, even though if you do not like what they talk about. Be patient to face people around you; try to understand them.

When they ask for any opinion or suggestion to you, give the best answer you can give. Try to be wise, since it means they trust you. But if they do not ask for anything to you, do not give your opinion or judge them, because sometimes people just need to be listened to.

Second, try to remember and call their names well. It is a small thing but has great effect and many people often forget to do. A name is something personal and someone will be so appreciated when you call them well as his name since it shows that you remember him.

Third, keep your words. People would not be interested to you if you speak harshly or negatively. Say something positive. It is better if you speak wisely and has inspiration for others to think or do something positive.

Next is being helpful. Whenever your friends need your help and as long as you are able to help them, why do not you help them? People will remember you for every kind thing you have done for them. And you also feel a special happiness after helping them.

Five is saying sorry when you make mistake. It is normal for human being to have any fault and doing some mistakes, intentionally or unintentionally. Do not worry or be ashamed to say sorry from the deepest of your heart to them. And of course, when people have some mistakes to you, try to forgive them, so you will live in peace with every one.

Last but not least, give your smile and try to be cheer up. A smile has positive effects for every body, so when you smile at them, you make them comfort and feel that they are accepted. You look full of spirit and it gives positive energy to people around you. Smile, then the whole world will smile to you.

Steps

Go for the cute look. Make sure you're clean (of course),and not smothered in makeup. A little lip gloss and mascara, and that's it. For clothes, just wear anything you want-but make sure your clothes fit you, are clean, and compliment your shape. Keep your nails, hair, skin and teeth in good condition, Remember to stay clean and take showers/baths.

Be the nicest you can. Treat everyone like you would treat your best friend. Don't insult people or pick on them, and stick up for people who are being picked on. Don't get into a punch-up - just tell people to leave them alone. Keep your promises, don't be rude, and never gossip about someone

Whatever you're feeling, put a smile on your face. Don't stop being nice to someone or ignore people because your laptop broke down yesterday-put on a sweet smile and act normal. If you absolutely can't act normal, at least explain to people what's wrong. "Sorry if I snap. It's just that my laptop broke down yesterday and it had all of my homework on it!" is much better than, "Just leave me alone!". People will understand. If you are the kind of person that always seems to have something wrong, force yourself to smile because people won't be understanding forever. Just like you, they want to surround themselves with "happy shiny" people.

Get on the right side of your teachers. Hand in your homework when you should, don't talk in class or pass notes, and try hard. If you actually concentrate you can end up learning some really useful or interesting stuff-and you have the weekends, break times, and before and after school to talk to your mates. So tone it down and listen.

Be sensible and level headed. This will earn you respect and liking from older people such as parents, teachers, older students and other adults. In an emergency just think about what the most logical thing to do would be, and do it. Stay calm and don't scream or rush about.

Have self-esteem. Easier said than done, I know. You need to realize that you are worth something. Read articles on here about getting confident and stop procrastinating. If you don't like something about yourself, change it straight away. You have the power to do that. Remember that in order to be loved, you need to love and respect yourslef.

be a great listener. This tip always works. People like to be the center of interest.just listen to them, even if it bores you, and you will be amazed.

Tips

• Be loyal. Don't jump from one friend to another gossiping about them-- this will make all your friends dislike you, and will lose you your trust and give you a reputation.
• Don't panic if you don't get it right away. Do each step thoroughly and carefully before moving on to the next.
• Don't get excited and rush around.
• Do not do something to someone that you don't want to be done to you!
• Do not be mean to others even though people are mean to them.
• If someone insults you or says something, respond to them kindly and politely, but stand up for yourself so they feel guilty about saying terrible things about you in the future. Spread love, not hate, and you'll be seen as a good person who'll be kind, but not take anyone's foolishness.
• The most important thing is, accepting, loving and respecting yourself unconditionally. This is a very subtle phenomenon and when practiced steadfastly, it invariably sows the seeds of true love and respect for you in the hearts of others.

Warnings

• You may still be disliked or envied by some. Don't let this get to you-just be nice and try your best. Remember that in general, the same amount of people will like you and hate you. If you're a horrible person, horrible persons will like you. If you're nice and follow these steps, you'll be loved by nice people.
• Don't let one person let you down, there are plenty of other people out there.
• Don't ask someone out just to make someone else jealous. Both sides end up getting hurt. It'snot like the movies.
• Don't get taken advantage of, there's such thing as being too nice for your own good.
• Its OK to say no to something you don't want to do just let people down gently!
• Don´t change your personality too much, be careful not to push your feelings away.